🎒 Back-to-School, Back to Stress

July 18, 2025

Supporting Mental Health During Major Transitions 🍂

August rolls in like a warm breeze… until it doesn’t. Suddenly, the lazy rhythm of summer is interrupted by alarms, routines, and a mountain of to-dos. Whether you're a student, parent, teacher—or just someone feeling the ripple effects of back-to-school season—August can bring big transitions that shake your mental equilibrium.

But don't panic. Transitions don’t have to mean turmoil. Let’s talk about how to ride the wave into fall with more calm, clarity, and confidence.

💡 Why Is August So Emotionally Loud?

This month often marks the end of freedom and flexibility for many. For some, it's a reminder of responsibilities ramping up. For others, it’s a season of new beginnings—and we all know new can bring anxiety.

Common feelings during this time include:

  • 📈 Heightened anxiety or overwhelm
  • 😟 Fear of failure or social pressure
  • 💤 Disrupted sleep as schedules shift
  • 😞 Sadness as summer ends (hello, “August blues”)

🧘‍♀️ Tip #1: Ground Yourself in the Present

Start each day by checking in with yourself:

  • Take three deep breaths before getting out of bed.
  • Try a simple morning mantra: “I can handle what today brings.”
  • Limit early-morning phone or news exposure. Your peace deserves protection.
🌿 Try This: Place a calming object (like a smooth stone, calming photo, or essential oil roller) by your coffee maker or sink to create a “mindful pause” moment in your morning.

📝 Tip #2: Set Realistic Intentions for Fall (Not Just Goals)

Forget rigid resolutions. Instead, choose intentions that center your well-being:

  • Intentions invite growth, not pressure.
  • Write down 2-3 values you want to lead with this fall—like connection, balance, or curiosity.
  • Reflect weekly on how you’re living those values, not just completing tasks.
🍁 Intentional Living Example:
Instead of “I’ll work out 5 days a week,” try “I will listen to what my body needs and move with care.”

🧩 Tip #3: Make Transitions Tangible with Routine “Anchors”

Change feels more manageable when you build in predictable checkpoints:

  • Create a cozy Sunday night ritual (journaling, face mask, tea—yes, please!)
  • Start a 5-minute “transition habit” between activities (like stepping outside before starting homework or prepping dinner).
  • Anchor your mornings and evenings with one consistent activity.
🎨 Family Fun Idea: Make a “transition board” with the family to visualize new routines or goals together.

🌧️ Tip #4: Name What You’re Feeling—And Normalize It

You’re not being dramatic. You're being human. Transitions stir up emotions, especially if they’re tied to:

  • Past school-related stress
  • Childhood patterns
  • Grief over lost time or failed expectations

Talk it out. Write it down. Let it be seen.


💬 Therapist's Note: It’s okay to grieve change, even positive change. Joy and anxiety can co-exist.

✨ Final Thought: Be Gentle With Yourself

Growth doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Progress doesn’t need to be perfect. Whether you're sharpening pencils, planning lessons, packing lunches, or just figuring out what’s next—you’re doing enough.

August may come with pressure, but it’s also an opportunity to start again with more grace, more intention, and more peace.


❤️ Need Extra Support?

Transitions are hard, but you don’t have to navigate them alone. If the back-to-school season is stirring up stress, anxiety, or emotional overwhelm, therapy can offer a safe space to regroup and rebuild.

📅 Reach out to schedule a session today—your future self will thank you.